By: Brad Hankins
With the Holidays and a new year upon us, there is no better time for reflection and hope. Considering our somewhat older and perhaps retired lives, it is easy to slide toward complacency and lose sight of the path we are on and where we would like that journey to take us.
I am biased toward higher levels of wellness and health being part of a full and enriched life. My Nursing career has shown me that without a foundation of good health (as that means to you) it is difficult to reach personal potential, regardless of age. And with age we can become comfortable with our current levels of physical, mental and emotional health, easily forgetting there are many things to explore and experience. How do we reconnect ourselves to our lives?
Step one, become active. In other words, do more in different ways than you currently are. The body is connected to the mind and the mind to the body – inseparable yet unique. Both loves to be exercised, challenged and exposed to the new and unexplored. Great joy can come from body and mind overcoming the perceived insurmountable together. Age is not a barrier to learning and growth.
Step two, improve yourself physically. All it takes that most rare behavior, discipline. We all know discipline very well; we couldn’t successfully have reached our age without it. Did you serve in the military? If so, discipline is imbedded in your DNA. Remember those early mornings you drug yourself out of bed to face another frustrating day of work because it was the right thing to do for your family? Then you have no shortage of discipline. It is simply a matter of focusing the discipline you have developed over time on beginning a daily walk, going to the gym three days a week, taking a yoga class, or diving into a regular swimming practice.
Step three, exercise your mind. Our brain becomes accustomed to patterns, both of thought and daily life. It becomes comfortable doing only expected things and gets grumpy when we ask more if it. Ask more of your brain. Change up your daily activities, brush your teeth with your non-dominate hand, go through the grocery store the opposite direction, put your pants on standing up. Scroll less, read more. And when you read, challenge yourself with new authors and new topics.
Last step, be kind to yourself. We didn’t get chronologically here without hitting a few bumps in the road – maybe a guardrail or two. Give yourself the grace to appreciate the life you have lived and the space to embrace your future. It is easy for rumination to overwhelm us at times. That’s okay, it happens but only visit those memories for what they were and refuse to let them describe who we are today. In the words of Stephen Stills, “don’t let the past remind us of what we are not now”.
The improvement of emotional, mental and physical wellbeing is not restricted by age, circumstance nor perspective. Introspection is readily available to all of us and there are times even simple journeys can bring new, never before seen vistas.
Merry Christmas and I hope your new year is full of wonder and happiness!
As always, I would enjoy hearing about the challenges and successes of your fitness journey. Please feel free to email me at hankinsb@ssymca.net .
Brad Hankins RN, CPT